He/She Loves me not…

You can’t force things to happen if it isn’t meant to happen.
My sister, Elle is in love with a man named Jason, who isn’t in love with her.
Elle and Jason were co-workers in New York City. She found him attractive, but there’s something about short bald men that does not appeal to me.
They’ve flirted, chatted and slowly that working relationship grew into something more but nothing came of it.. They’ve never dated, never had sex…never anything!
Elle is your semi-typical type A personality. What she liked most about Jason was that he would “put her in her place”, tell her “no” and wouldn’t allow her to always have her way.
I think when Jason realized that he had that power over her, he started to treat her like shit. And Elle allowed it to happen and forgave him for what he did, thus starting the sick cycle of verbal and emotional abuse. 
The cosmic powers that be, God, Fate, whatever you may believe in is telling you “NO” that’s not the right person for you, but we try even harder to get it. We get our hearts broken and shed our tears over someone who was nothing, who never even loved you.

– Julia